Author: Melanie Godfrey (Page 7 of 8)

Prepare Your Child

Do you remember the Bible’s story of how Jesus miraculously fed thousands with  five loaves and two fish? Jesus’ disciple, Andrew, acknowledged, ”There is a lad here who has five barley loaves and two fish, but what are these for so many people?”  John 6:9  (NASB)

Who do you think packed that little boy’s lunch? The Bible does not say, but I like to think it was the boy’s mother. She knew her son’s curious nature and tendency to explore or follow a crowd, so she prepared him as best she could for whatever his day might hold.

You and I must do the same for our children, grandchildren, and the other children God puts in our lives. Preparing children encompasses more than food, clothing, and education. We need to also prepare the children in our lives to be used in whatever way God desires. Read and discuss with them the remarkable stories of the Bible. Teach them scripture and help them memorize it. Let them see you make God’s word and obedience to it top priority in your own life. Talk about God and relate godly truths to your children in everyday circumstances.

Teaching God’s Word to young children can be quite entertaining. Once during Bible time, I shared the story of Lazarus with my two toddlers. To help them visualize the story, I had them role play Lazarus and Jesus.

We made a tomb by covering a little table with beach towels. Taking a large blanket, I wrapped my daughter and placed her under the table in the ‘tomb.’ My son exclaimed, “Lazarus, come out!” at which time my daughter emerged from under the table.

They took turns playing each role with delight. After our bible time was over, the kids continued to repeat the story and play each role until I heard my daughter call, “Lazarus Come out!”  to which my son boastfully replied, “No! I will not!” 

There is a vast variety of wonderful bible story books, and I read many to my children. However, I also was available for my children to hear me read directly from Scripture despite the temptation to wait until they were older.

However, the nagging doubt that my incredibly young ones were not even listening was soon dispelled. Imagine my surprise when my two year old son, who had apparently been contemplating the story in Genesis 3 in which Adam and Eve’s disobedience resulted in their having to leave the Garden of Eden, asked me, “Mommy, when God drove Adam and Eve out of the garden, was God driving a car?”

Confused over the question but seeing his earnest desire for an answer, I reflected upon the Scripture we had been reading and had to smile upon the realization that Genesis 3:23-24 states, “therefore the Lord God sent him out from the garden of Eden…  So He drove the man out….” 

Obviously, my two-year-old son had indeed been listening intently and was wondering if God owned a car or a truck!

My 2-year-old daughter would often sit in her bedroom, pretending to read and teach Bible stories to  her many stuffed animals. One evening, desiring to see and hear what she was saying, I quietly stood near her bedroom doorway. Standing behind her, I observed all that she was doing. My darling daughter had lined her up friends on the floor and she was standing in her bed holding her Bible in one hand and gesturing with the other as I heard her declare, “…and the Word of the Lord came to me…”  As many of God’s servants throughout Scripture announce these same words, it became clear that my darling daughter had also been listening to the reading of Scripture also.

There are and will be decisions and influences our children face that we cannot even imagine. As mothers, our responsibility is to influence and prepare our children in such a way that when it comes time for them to make their own decisions, they will have God’s truth in their heart and our godly example in their mind.

That the generation to come might know, even the children yet to be born,
That they may arise and tell them to their children, That they should put their confidence in God and not forget the works of God, but keep His commandments, Psalm 78:6-7 (NASB)

Be Grateful

Gratitude frees us to enjoy life and opens our eyes to blessings we would otherwise miss.

I remember being out with my two children when they were still infants and one of them spitting up on my white blouse. My husband and I had waited so exceedingly long to have children that I was thrilled about the event! While the mess may have been an aggravation to some, for me it was a badge of honor!

Those nights when my child cried out, I rushed into their rooms to comfort  and care for them. Rocking them back to calm sleepiness, I thanked the Lord for the privilege of being able to answer a child’s cry.

Having visited villages in Central America, I know the poverty in which many families live. I have seen hungry children wait for a bowl of food but refrain from eating everything to carry food home and share it with others in their family. I have seen homes made from pieces of plastic, scrap wood, and aluminum, and I have seen children wrapped in filth, wearing rags because there was no water to bathe, wash, or drink. Such things changed me. If I catch myself mumbling about daily household tasks, I stop and thank God for the food I can prepare for my family, a floor that gets dirty but is not dirt itself, and easy access to clean water to drink as well as use to clean all the other blessings God has given to me.

For all those who are followers of Christ, one of God’s gifts that He desires our heart to grasp is the spirit of thankfulness. Approaching life with thankfulness will make a tremendous difference in what you experience now and what you dwell on later.

 “Rejoice always; pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, NASB)

Be Grateful

Gratitude frees us to enjoy life and opens our eyes to blessings we would otherwise miss.

I remember being out with my two children when they were still infants and one of them spitting up on my white blouse. My husband and I had waited so exceedingly long to have children that I was thrilled about the event! While the mess may have been an aggravation to some, for me it was a badge of honor!

Those nights when my child cried out, I rushed into their rooms to comfort  and care for them. Rocking them back to calm sleepiness, I thanked the Lord for the privilege of being able to answer a child’s cry.

Having visited villages in Central America, I know the poverty in which many families live. I have seen hungry children wait for a bowl of food but refrain from eating everything to carry food home and share it with others in their family. I have seen homes made from pieces of plastic, scrap wood, and aluminum, and I have seen children wrapped in filth, wearing rags because there was no water to bathe, wash, or drink. Such things changed me. If I catch myself mumbling about daily household tasks, I stop and thank God for the food I can prepare for my family, a floor that gets dirty but is not dirt itself, and easy access to clean water to drink as well as use to clean all the other blessings God has given to me.

For all those who are followers of Christ, one of God’s gifts that He desires our heart to grasp is the spirit of thankfulness. Approaching life with thankfulness will make a tremendous difference in what you experience now and what you dwell on later.

 “Rejoice always; pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, NASB)

Dedicate Your Child

The Bible’s story of Hannah is dear to my heart. Hannah was barren and longed for a child. While praying and weeping bitterly for a child, she promised the Lord that if He gave her a son, she would give up the child to serve the Lord all the days of that child’s life. God answered her prayer and Hannah kept her promise. When the time came for Hannah to bring Samuel to the temple to live, she handed the child to the temple priest, Eli, courageously sharing, “For this boy I prayed, and the Lord has given me my petition which I asked of Him. So I have also dedicated him to the Lord; as long as he lives he is dedicated to the Lord…”  (1 Samuel 1:27-28 NASB)

Hannah knew that her son was not born for her, but for God. The same is true for your child. God created your child for Himself, not for you. No doubt God is using your child to bless you, challenge you, and grow you, but these things are not our children’s main purpose. The main purpose behind God creating our children is for our children to bring glory to Him.

During the years of my longing to be a mother, God helped me and led me to pray, “God bless me with a child when You know I am ready.”    Not knowing whether or not God would ever think me ready to be a mother made that a hard prayer to pray, but, as I prayed that prayer, I began to realize that if and when God did bless our home with children, those children would not be given to be mine, but God’s.

As mothers, you and I must realize and accept that our precious children, whether young or old, are created for God not ourselves. When we see our children as not our own but God’s, mothering takes on a new perspective. We begin to love, nurture, and instruct our children for God because we love God. Dedicate means to set apart for a unique use; to commit to a particular course of action or thought. God is calling all mothers to purposefully in heart, mind, and prayer to commit our children to the purpose and design God has planned for them.

 “Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. (Romans 12:1, NASB)

As  mothers, let us not only present ourselves to our Lord but our children also.

Be Encouraged

 God’s love for you is great. After Jesus was born and the shepherd came to see the new king, Luke 2:19 records, “But Mary treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart.”  (ESV)

Why did God include those words in the story? Perhaps the verse was specifically recorded and preserved for mothers. God is telling us that He knows a mother’s heart. God knows what we desire and what we sacrifice. God shares with us those moments of motherhood so precious they take our breath away as well as those disappointments that break our heart.

At whatever stage of mothering, we find ourselves, God desires to encourage us. Therefore, when you need encouragement, ask Him for it.

One Sunday morning before I became a mother, I tearfully asked the Lord to encourage me as I struggled with childlessness. Later that same morning at church, my husband and I gathered our elementary age group of children to join the preschoolers for a puppet show. During the puppet show, a tiny unfamiliar preschool girl quietly came to where I was sitting, placed her hand on my leg and looked up at me. She then climbed into my lap, laid her head against me, and placed her hand on my cheek. Throughout the show, the little girl smiled quietly and kept her eyes on me rather than the puppets. When the show ended, the girl silently slipped down from my lap and wandered back to the other preschoolers. Her sweet presence lifted my heart, and I knew immediately God had sent her to me for those moments.  .  Every Sunday thereafter I looked for the little gift, but I never saw her again.

God knew the love of that little girl would give me hope and remind me that He was aware of my heart and longings. Through the attention and presence of that little girl, God hugged me. He encouraged me. Do not hesitate to ask Him for encouragement. God knows we mothers need such a blessing.

Now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus,  so that with one accord you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Romans 15:5-6, NASB)

Where am I going?

Dearest Daughter,

Some parts of your life’s road  are pleasant and smooth while other sections are going to be discouraging and difficult.  Keep in mind that no one part of your path has to define the rest. 

The journey is your story. Each blessing and trial, wise decision, and foolish choice determines your current direction but does not dictate your destination. 

While life can be sobering knowing the most fulfilling and joyful accomplishments must be achieved by multiple wise decisions, take a breath.  Though foolishness may result in brutal consequences, God’s grace does enable recovery.

Regardless of your present location on your story road, my dear girl, God declares that you are a young lady of great worth who is treasured by the God of creation and sacrificed for by the King of Kings.

With God’s Love, Virtually Mom

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)

Does He Really Love Me?

Dearest Daughter

The best way to know if a guy genuinely loves you is by comparing him to the source and author of love itself.

Does your guy put your wants over his own?

Does your guy make your life better in every way, not just emotionally or socially? Does he spur you to strengthen yourself physically or offer you things that could harm you? Does he encourage you to excel academically and propel you toward reaching your life goals or pull you away from your intended path?

Is your guy’s attitude and attention to you  consistently caring and respectful regardless of where the two of you are, what you are doing, how you look, and the kind of day you are having, or is his behavior dependent upon his current emotional state?

How do your answers to the questions above compare to God’s love for you. God is love, and His love for you is relentless and unconditional for He loved you before you even knew of Him. God loves you even if you do not reciprocate, and He sacrificed himself for you to have a more abundant and hope-filled life with great purpose.

“By this the love of God is revealed in us: that God has sent his one and only Son into the world so that we may live through him. In this is love: not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins.“ (1 John 4:9,10, ESV)

                                                            With God’s Love, Virtually Mom

What is Love?

Dearest Daughter,

Movies, songs, and peers are all constantly trying to define love. Yet, these depictions of love are  only opinions and the attempts of humanity to place the intangible power and purity of love into a tangible frame of expectation. To really know the depths and inner workings of anything, we must go to the original source.

Knowing people, culture, and time would skew and warp the truth and clarity of love, God intentionally defined love for us and had his servant, Paul, include it in a letter to Paul’s friends living in Corinth, a city filled with false, corrupt, and destructive ideas of love.

Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-7

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+cor+13%3A1-7&version=ESV

Love does exist. Love is real. Love is God.

Seek Him and you will discover and experience true love, and be able to recognize authentic love in yourself and in others.

                                                             With God’s Love, Virtually Mom

Trust God

Jochebed was the mother of Moses. She gave birth to her son Moses at a time when the Egyptian Pharoah was ordering the death of any Hebrew boy born. Amazingly, Jochebed was able to hide her son for three months. The Bible says,  But when she could hide him no longer, she got him a wicker basket and covered it over with tar and pitch. Then she put the child into it and set it among the reeds by the bank of the Nile. (Exodus 2:3)

Jochebed trusted God. She had no other choice. You and I must trust Him too.

Today, as mothers, we are not placing our infants in baskets to float down a river, but we do send them off to kindergarten, middle school, high school, college, the military, and into the future life our children choose. As mothers, we are not naïve. We know the world is filled with deception and dangers. Yet, life forces upon us a time and place in which our children cannot be under our protection and personal guidance. We can fret, worry, and struggle to shield our children or, like Jochebed, we can choose to let go and trust God.

When my husband and I received the news of the birth of the little baby boy who would become our son, I had to trust God because my heart’s desire was thousands of miles away in another country being cared for by a woman I did not know. Added to this distance was the hard lesson I had already experienced, which was that the outcome of every adoption is uncertain. Trusting God was my only choice.

Hear me. I did not have a great faith, but I did have a great God. So great is my God that He knew the best way to move my heart to trust Him was to give me no other options. Eight months later, when I held my son in my arms for the first time, I was humbled and awed at how good God is.

I know the rest of my days I must trust God. I just pray that I have learned to choose to trust rather than stumble down the path of insecurity, fear, and worry.

 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 NASB)

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